Musings on Romance

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Vote for me!!!!

So there’s this competition thing for Australia’s Best Blogs and there’s a People’s Choice part of the competition which closes on May 5, 2014. And, this blog right here is in it.  Click on the badge in this post (or on the sidebar) to vote for me!!!!  (if you want to).

There are nearly 900 blogs listed on the survey and you can vote for as many as you like but you can only vote once.  The blogs are listed in alphabetical order – mine is on page 2 but you have to go to the end of the survey to get to add your name/address/email and the “vote” button.

Happy April everyone! 😀

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This ends the shameless self-promotion portion of the programme. Regular blogging will resume tomorrow.

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Unprecedented DABWAHA happenings!!

OMG!  AMAZEBALLS  I am currently in the lead of the DABWAHA tournament.  This has NEVER happened before and will likely NEVER happen again so I’m milking it for ALL IT’S WORTH.

As a Dear Author reviewer I don’t think I’m eligible to actually win but bragging rights are happiness-causing 😀

Lookee here:  Proof!!

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Also, everybody should go vote for Dare You To and keep me in the lead!! 😀

The Default Hero/ine?

I don’t know if I read the same way other people do. But I’ve been thinking lately about the way I read and what I see and pay attention to in the text of books. (And what I miss.) And I have realised something about myself.  I am still working on the why, but here’s what I’ve got so far.

I think I have a “default hero” and a “default heroine”.  I know that typically, blond heroes on covers do not sell as well as dark haired heroes. Maybe that’s why Mr. Default has dark hair – it’s what I’m most used to seeing.  Or maybe that is my own preference. But Mr. Default is tall (around 6’1″ ish), with broad shoulders, narrow hips and a six pack.  Ms. Default is less defined – in that I find it much easier to change her hair colour (is this the influence of book covers again?) but she, typically is around medium height, edging into tall (maybe 5’7″ish), slim, with a nipped in waist and a nice (but not huge) rack.  If I’m reading a book where the characters aren’t particularly well defined, Mr. and Ms. Default step in.  It’s also true that if I’m reading a book where the hero is described as very short or very tall or otherwise outside my “default”, I tend to morph the hero in my mind. I “see” him in my head as around that 6′ mark unless the text doesn’t allow me to.

MagpieLordFor example, in The Magpie Lord, my inclination was to make Stephen taller.  Unfortunately, the text kept reminding me that he was not tall –

He was incredibly unimpressive. Short, for one thing, barely five feet tall, narrow shouldered, significantly underweight, hollow-cheeked. He had reddish-brown hair cut unfashionably close, possibly against a hint of curls. His worn suit of faded black was obviously cheap and didn’t fit terribly well; bizarrely, he wore cheap cotton gloves. He looked like a clerk, the ten-a-penny kind who drudged in every counting house, except that he had tawny-gold eyes that were vividly glowing in his pale rigid face, and they were staring at Crane with something that looked extraordinarily like hate.

I never felt the text hammered it into my head over and over again. It was not annoying. But, I could not see Stephen as anything other than the short man he was.

TheChangeupMr. Default and Ms. Default (or Mr. and Mr. Default as the case may be) are usually relatively close in age as well.  That’s my default.  So, unless the text convinces me an age difference is important, I’m going to picture the main characters as being similar in age/maturity too.  I read The Changeup by Rhonda Shaw recently.  The hero is 22 and the heroine is 34.  I didn’t actually start off thinking that was a huge deal in terms of age difference (because, fundamentally, I don’t think 34 is old).  But the text convinced me it was a problem.  It also convinced me (and I don’t think it was supposed to) that the hero was actually too immature to be in a relationship with the heroine.

TheGoodBoyI also read The Good Boy by Lisa Henry and JA Rock shortly after.  (I reviewed it at Dear Author.) Derek, the elder hero was 37 and Lane, the younger hero was 20.  For some reason I didn’t feel that the age difference meant anything material to them.  Possibly it was because the authors did a good job of showing that the characters related well to one another and that Lane was a mature 20 year old.  (He was certainly vulnerable but maturity is a different thing I think).  But, what if I merely inserted my default?  Did I round Lane up to 25 and Derek down to 30? I might have. I don’t know.

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My most moving romantic scene

There are some books which leave an impression.  Some beloved favourites which are comforts to be read over and over again.  I posted a while back about my favourite sex scene and I thought I’d share today one of the most memorable and moving and romantic scenes I’ve read in romance fiction. For me, it is the ultimate in grand gestures.  It’s from a historical book – I don’t know the correct term for it but it’s the novel equivalent of a docu-drama.  Based on fact, using real people, but where the historical record is blank or obscure, fiction (via the author) steps in to complete the story.  I borrowed the book from the library many years ago.  I’ve only read it once and yet, it left a huge impression on me and, there is one scene in particular which, when I read it, caused me, literally, to catch my breath.

The book is Here Be Dragons by Sharon Kay Penman.

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Guest blog at Read Watch Play

Today I have a guest piece up at Read Watch Play about Happy Endings (and not the pr0n kind either!).

Happy ever after

Happy Ever After
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Read Watch Play is a blog run by the New South Wales Readers Advisory Working Group working with the State Library of NSW and various libraries around the world.

I was a bit chuffed to be asked to contribute.  Please stop by and say hello.

Author Spaces, Reader Spaces & A New Review Policy

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I’ve been pondering the various spaces we occupy lately and the spaces we share with others, especially as readers, bloggers and authors. I think authors and readers can should share spaces. Generally, it’s a good thing. After all, we share a love of books and reading.   I enjoy interacting with authors online and at various blogs.  I like seeing  authors commenting on blogs (but not on reviews of their own books). Many authors blog and, in the last year or so, more than a few bloggers in my tweetstream have become or are in the process of becoming published authors.  The spaces which were designated “reader spaces” are filled with authors – because they are readers too. And I think that’s okay. I like it.  I am fortunate that I don’t follow (not for long anyway) authors who abuse readers or reviewers.  The authors I interact with online know that they are not their books and liking or not liking their book is not the same as liking or not liking them as people.  I know there are badly behaving authors out there – they get discussed often enough on Twitter, but, for the most part, I’m not playing in the sandbox with them.

Authors can review and blog and bloggers can become authors if they want to.  I like the wild mix of interaction we have.  I like seeing authors commenting on blog posts and reviews and I often enjoy posts written by authors, be they opinion pieces, news posts, random musings or book reviews. And maybe it’s small of me but I do get a kick out of being followed back by an author I like. Of sharing opinions and silly jokes and LOLcats with people I admire. And there are few things I like better than discussing romance books. Books are so precious to me that the people who write them do inspire awe. A little bit.

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